There is a stage of attraction when everything feels like an event. Dinner. Drinks. A show. A trip. A beautiful room. A reservation worth planning around. I love all of that. But there is another stage I may love even more. Nothing. Doing absolutely nothing with someone and still enjoying the time. This is a [...]

At some point adulthood becomes alarmingly administrative. Bills. Appointments. Emails. Insurance. Passwords. Forms. Maintenance. Scheduling. Entire days can disappear without anything actually happening. You were busy. Very busy. Doing what? Managing existence. This is necessary. Also dangerous. Because if you are not careful, adulthood becomes one long sequence of successfully completed errands. I want adventures. [...]